12-18-2019, 04:24 PM
Personally I'm a big fan of weed, but he's 15 and is already struggling to keep up with his school work. I don't think it's beneficial for him, and even if it might be it's still illegal here.
I think he trusts me as much as he trusts anyone, and he obeys me when he is around me, but he doesn't live with me. His adopted mother asked me to talk with him because he doesn't have a relationship with her husband and she doesn't have the will power to follow through with any discipline. I told him it was a crutch that he didn't need and that he should be focused on getting his school work done and getting some damned exercise and not getting high with his friends. He knows I smoke, so I don't know if that helps with the "trust me" part or if he just thinks I'm being a hypocrite. He seemed to take it well, but like most teenagers he's getting pretty good at telling people what they want to hear and then not following through.
I think he trusts me as much as he trusts anyone, and he obeys me when he is around me, but he doesn't live with me. His adopted mother asked me to talk with him because he doesn't have a relationship with her husband and she doesn't have the will power to follow through with any discipline. I told him it was a crutch that he didn't need and that he should be focused on getting his school work done and getting some damned exercise and not getting high with his friends. He knows I smoke, so I don't know if that helps with the "trust me" part or if he just thinks I'm being a hypocrite. He seemed to take it well, but like most teenagers he's getting pretty good at telling people what they want to hear and then not following through.